I ended my previous post about teenage depression recommending that step one in helping your teen overcome their sadness is attempting to learn its cause. There is no such thing as spontaneous human sadness. Do what you can to learn what’s causing their distress. Give them what tools that you know will help them learn how [...]
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How to Understand Teenage Depression, Pt. 1
I feel like too many articles on teenage depression leave something to be desired. They’re just endless lists of symptoms, with a diagnosis tacked onto them, that says if your teen has enough of these symptoms, then they have depression. They talk about teenage depression as if it’s some kind of disease, striking out of [...]
Read More depression, teenage self-esteem, teenagersHow to Stop Cyberbullying
The best way to stop to cyberbullying is putting kids in a healthy environment where any kind of bullying is absolutely unacceptable. “A school where children don’t feel safe, is a school where children struggle to learn.” -Arne Duncan, US Secretary of Education I talk a little about this in my blog post “How to Stop [...]
Read More bullying, cyberbullying, internet safetyWhat is Cyberbullying?
Cyberbullying has gotten a lot of attention over the past few years. As access to technology spreads, the amount of young people getting online is enormous. Cyberbullying is when someone repeatedly harasses, mistreats, or makes fun of another person online while using cell phones or other electronic devices. -Cyberbullying Research Institute Today, 95% of kids ages [...]
Read More bullying, cyberbullying, internet safety, teenagersHow To Talk To Your Teens About Underage Drinking
Underage drinking isn’t like the other dangers that our teens can face. When we warn our kids to look both ways before crossing the street, it’s because we want them to be safe. The last thing we would want is for them to be hit by a car, so we inform them of the danger, [...]
Read More alcohol, drinking, parenting, Teen issuesUnderage Drinking, Why They Do It
Underage drinking is something that every parent has some fears about. Despite laws restricting sales of alcohol to teens and school programs like D.A.R.E. warning about the dangers of alcohol, some teens almost always manage to get it anyway. It doesn’t help that every story you hear about underage drinking is a scary story, or [...]
Read More alcohol, parenting teens, teenagersTeen Internet Safety, Part 2: Social Networking
Teen internet safety on social networks like Facebook is very important. The first question you maybe need to ask is how young is too young to have your own account? I’ve read about some parents opening a Facebook for their newborns, posting pictures and filling out a profile for them. This is something that has [...]
Read More communication, internet safety, parentingTeen Internet Safety, Part 1: Guiding Principles
Teen internet safety is a very valid and healthy concern for parents. After all, the internet can both be a wondrous and a dangerous place all at once. We want to allow our teens the freedom to express themselves and explore the internet, but how much freedom is too much? How much control over what [...]
Read More internet safety, parenting, parenting teensHow to Stop Teenage Bullying
In my previous article, Examining and Understanding the Root of Teenage Bullying, I looked at some of the ways that people, teenagers and adults, bully. In today’s article, I’m going to try and examine the mindset of bullies, and why they do what they do, and how to stop bullying. Acceptable & Unacceptable Parents, everything [...]
Read More bullying, parenting, teenagersExamining & Understanding the Root of Teenage Bullying
Teenage bullying has become a hot topic in the parenting world. With access to more people than ever before, kids are more likely to be bullied today than any other time previous to this. We’ve seen several cruel tragedies online, as well as offline… All of it recorded in stark detail… And all of it [...]
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